
No, I'm not referring to rejection letters from editors and agents, though that can be
feedback from hell. Have you given your manuscript to your writing group for feedback? Or the writing class for fellow student's critique? To your group of friends who have long heard about this book you're writing?
That would be the feedback I'm talking about. Not because it's necessarily bad or wrong feedback, but because it is very often too much feedback, and not at the right time for you to hear it. When you get too much feedback too early in your process, your brain scrambles to make sense of conflicting feedback and tries to address it all. You lose the book you set out to write. This is so common that it deserves a blog of its own.
Once you have written many drafts of your book, perhaps had some qualified editor feedback, and are secure in what your book is about, who it is for, how it needs to work, then you can get feedback that will help refine or clarify things for the reader. At this stage, you can decipher helpful suggestions or comments from sheer opinion or "what I would have done" tips. You won't be sent off on the wrong track because your own gut will tell you which suggestions make sense; which ones tap a nerve about something that bothered you too.
If, however, you are on the first or second draft, still pondering structure, focus, characters, plot, and such, then the feedback is more often confusing, derailing, frustrating, and damaging. Many an author has come to me with his or her book in a jumbled mess from all the rewrites and critiques. There is only one thing to do: (1) mediate on and remember what the core idea was that set you off to write this book in the first place (your actual inspiration), and (2) start again, not reading or using anything that has already been written. Write it now, informed only by what has stayed in your head.
You can avoid this nightmare by waiting to submit your work until you are far enough along, secure in the basics of what you're writing. Yes, be open to outside feedback. Yes, listen to critiques you are not inclined to want to hear. But remember that the most
important aspect of feedback is that it points out a
problem for your reader. How you address the problem is entirely up to you. Sort through it all, and then listen to your gut.
OR, if forced to provide work for critique, sacrifice a new piece for that purpose; not your work that is not ready.
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